It is not at all unusual that a family will have at least one relative who is too far and/or infirm to attend a funeral. This can be a source of great pain for that loved one if they were close to the person who has died, and it is very important to support them through their grief. This can mean visiting them more, listening to them when they talk about their pain, and understanding that no matter how old or ill they might be, they will still have to process their grief. They will have to deal with those famous five stages of grief, and it is important that they have family or friends who can help them with it.
It is a universal truth that many people love to receive physical tokens that can remind them of the loved one they lost. It can be a trivial item like a pocket comb, watch or a framed photo. Whatever your family member requests, do your very best to find it and bring it to them.
Remember too that calling cards for a funeral, a dried flower from a bouquet, and even a lock of hair from their loved one might also be of great comfort. Another unique item to consider is an urn necklace. Though this is something relatively new, cremation jewelry is actually a beautiful way to allow someone to keep their lost loved one close.
It is surprising to see the level of comfort that grieving people can take from physical remembrances and tokens. Giving your loved one memorial jewelry that contains ashes or a lock of hair is one way they can feel as if they were able to be with that person one last time. This is a tremendous form of comfort and something that might bring an obvious sign of relief to the person mourning their loss.
We use the word closure quite loosely these days, and yet we may not quite understand just how many ways it can occur. Attending a funeral often brings that sense of closure because we are able to share our grief, our funny memories and our thoughts with others who are in obvious pain. It allows us to grieve and have witnesses to our grief.
The relative stuck in a nursing home or at home in bed unable to travel may feel an immense sense of pain simply because their grief has no outlet. They have no one to grieve with in a productive way. A cremation necklace may serve as a way for them to express how they feel - whether they do this with you or alone with the remains of their loved one. It can be a tremendously positive and healing experience, and a good reason to consider keepsake jewelry from Johnston's Cremation Jewelry.
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Imagine taking care of a loved one for a decade or even two and then watching them slowly fail. You know there is nothing you can do about it, and you give them all the love, care and attention they need while silently preparing your heart for the loss to come. Even though it is expected, it can be overwhelming, and this is true whether that decade or more of care went to a human being or a pet.
Overcoming the death of a pet can be especially difficult because they typically need our attention throughout their entire lives. They never speak to us in words and yet we develop solid forms of communication with them, and the bonds we feel with them are intense. For many, it is like having children and for others it is like having the very best of friends. Losing them is inevitable, but rarely easy or without pain.
For many pet owners, things get even more difficult at the loss of the pet because they may not have property or a place to bury their beloved friend. This is why so many pets are cremated, and why millions of pet owners yearn for some way to create a special place or memorial to the pet. A keepsake urn is a wonderful idea, but there is also cremation jewelry that allows us to either retain or scatter pet’s ashes yet also keep them close to our hearts forever.
Johnston's Cremation Jewelry has memorial jewelry especially designed for pet owners, featuring paw prints and familiar silhouettes. The interior of each piece features a tiny urn into which some of the pet's cremated remains can be placed and kept for all time. This sort of choice enables a pet owner to deal with the cremated remains in whatever way they must, while also retaining a sense of nearness to the pet.
It can be very difficult for those grieving pets because many people simply don't understand how intense the loss and grief might be. Whether a friend or family member has a pet of their own, they may not understand the situation. An urn necklace can be the perfect tool for dealing with grief. It is a physical emblem of your bond with your pet and enables you to take comfort at any time simply by reaching up to touch it at your neck.
While you might worry that people will misjudge you for wearing a necklace for ashes to commemorate your pet, the appealing style and subtle design of memorial jewelry does not announce that it is a form of urn jewelry.
Never allow anyone to tell you how to grieve. Instead, consider tools like cremation jewelry pendants that allow you to always be near your pet. Though it may seem like only words of comfort to insist that they are never truly gone from us, when you wear this type of keepsake jewelry, it becomes fact. You can take constant comfort and begin remembering your beloved pet without pain and only with beautiful memories.]]>
If you have purchased a piece of cremation jewelry or even several cremation jewelry pendants, it is likely due to the fact that you have decided to keep your loved one close to you, but in a discreet and deeply personal way. The different styles of cremation jewelry show that we can use special and beautiful symbols to help overcome our loss. Whether it is an urn necklace designed with a paw print, reminding us of our intense love for a family pet or a patriotic symbol for a loved one who passed while serving in the military, there are memorial jewelry options ideal for almost all situations. Johnston's Cremation Jewelry has many beautiful styles, and each is discreet and comforting.
Cremation can leave us with difficult situations. We have the cremated remains of a loved one, but we may struggle with just where to keep them or scatter them. If scattering them was arranged before they passed, or simply something everyone agreed upon doing, it can be very hard to say goodbye completely. This is why cremation jewelry is such a lovely option.
You get to keep your loved one physically near you, remember them with beautiful symbolism and yet also live up to their final wishes or provide them with a final resting place. It allows more than just one person to retain a physical bond with their loved one as well and memorial jewelry can be of great comfort to many family members.
Though the concept of a necklace for ashes is new, it is an incredibly popular one. With ash scattering ceremonies becoming more and more popular and a keepsake urn something most choose, a cremation necklace makes sense. After all, most cremated remains are turned over to families or loved ones in small, sturdy cardboard boxes. The ashes are usually in a strong plastic bag. Though a dependable way to transport the ashes, it is not how anyone wishes to keep a loved one's remains.
Transitioning them into a keepsake urn is not at all unusual, but can be surprisingly difficult both emotionally and physically. Having the appropriate tools is essential. This is also the same for when you are filling cremation jewelry and you may want to do this all at once to cut down on the emotional strain of handling your loved one's remains.
In both cases, a small funnel will be essential. For the cremation jewelry, it is a very tiny funnel that should come with the necklace. A scooping tool such as a disposable spoon is very useful and allows all of the ashes to fall into the funnel and then inside the cremation necklace or pendant without touching your hands. If you do get ashes on your skin, simply rinse them away with water.
When transferring ashes to a keepsake urn, use a large mouth funnel and a scoop, as pouring ashes is never recommended. The urn can be a wonderful way to bring ashes to a scattering ceremony, but it is the cremation jewelry that will surely help you to deal with loss and have a sense that your loved one is always with you, and always near.]]>When we suffer a loss, our grief can make us yearn to hold on to the person we lost in any way that we can. We might refuse to give away their clothing, clean up their possessions or even deal with issues like canceling mail delivery. These are such final things, and they can each be very painful. This is also why so many people are torn over what to do with a loved one's ashes.
While there are some instances when a decorative keepsake urn is used to house the ashes and keep them in a family home, not everyone is sure they wish to keep ashes in this way. There are also times when ashes are retained until a spouse or partner also passes, and then both sets of ashes are handled as the couple wishes. Some people also request to be cremated and to have ashes buried or put into special vaults in cemeteries.
However, there are just as many people who have loved one's who request cremation, but then do not specify what is to be done with the ashes. This can lead to some confusion about what to do with the remains. Should they be kept? Should they be scattered in a place that was important to their loved one? There is no one or right answer to such questions.
The one thing to remember is that it may be difficult to live with ashes and not know what or when you are going to finish the process of dealing with them. There are many families that would say they just don't know what to do with the ashes of their loved one, and many hesitate because they are not yet ready to say goodbye completely.
This is why the rising trend in ash scattering ceremonies has appeared. People are more and more investing in unique urns, with some even becoming useful items like birdhouses or others that are entirely biodegradable like those made of gelatin or even salt.
Yet, there is always that risk that you might struggle with letting go entirely of your loved one. When we are buried we have a resting place where family and friends can come to feel reconnected and to remember. When we are cremated, that eliminates that option, yet there is also the desire to free the ashes.
Johnston's Cremation Jewelry has an ideal solution to such dilemmas in their different styles of cremation jewelry. Whether used to retain a lock of hair or some of the ashes of a cremated loved one, they allow us to scatter ashes yet also have a physical bond with our loved one.
An urn necklace is not designed in a way that is obvious as to its purpose. Instead, it is a form of memorial jewelry that can be chosen to serve as an unforgettable symbol of the loved one we have lost. A necklace for ashes can be for a pet as well as a person, and you can find keepsake jewelry in many different designs well suited to men, women or children. Cremation jewelry pendants can be a wonderful answer to the dilemma of keeping cremated remains or scattering them as a loved one may have wanted.]]>One of the worst things we can do when we are grieving the loss of a loved one is to put pressure on ourselves to behave in a way that others feel is "normal". If you want to go out for a very long walk, remaining in the air for hours, it is perfectly acceptable. If you want to have a good, loud cry, that is fine. There is no such thing as normal when we are struggling with grief. Though there are very recognizable "stages" in grief, and it can be incredibly therapeutic to read about them and understand them when you yourself are going through the process, it is also important that you allow yourself to "feel" what you feel.
Even though experts can tell us about the stages of grief and we can study them to help ourselves or friends and family with it, we still struggle with the pain of loss. This can make us feel unusually strong feelings, and this can make things like funeral planning very challenging. For example, many families find that a loved one's request for cremation may be hard to implement because they are in the midst of grief. Yet, honoring their requests will help with grief.
Handling cremated remains can also be very challenging during the grieving process, but there are some very wise choices you can make to ease the difficulties and pain of the process:
In fact, memorial jewelry may be a good way for more than just one grieving family member or friend to cope with a loss. While you might worry that people will think that a necklace for ashes is a bizarre choice, the designs and styles available are impressive. Johnston's Cremation Jewelry has designs for men and women, and they have the looks of keepsake jewelry, and do not obviously display that they are small urns.
Urn jewelry may be a new innovation, but it makes sense. Since grief can be so challenging, a cremation necklace allows us to feel close to the one we lost, speak to them if we wish and work through the grief at the right pace.]]>
Putting a beloved pet to sleep will never be a decision that is made lightly. In fact, your vet wouldn’t even recommend it if there was hope of recovery from the illness or injury that is plaguing your four-legged friend. If you keep your pet’s best interests at heart, the decision to put him to sleep may be the best course of action if he is suffering.
Being present for the procedure may be an extremely difficult moment for you, but it is helpful to keep in mind how your pet might feel being with only strangers during its final moments. It may even be an option to have the procedure done in your home to save your pet some of the stress of going to the vet’s office.
Before you go to the appointment, you will want to decide what to do with your pet’s remains. They are companies that can cremate them for you, either singly or in a mass cremation. Some people opt for a keepsake urn for their pets remains or a piece of cremation jewelry.
Another thing that is helpful is paying your vet bill before the day of the procedure. It will save you from having to wait at check-out while you are so fresh in the grieving process.
The procedure itself is relatively quick. The vet may choose to inject your pet with a sedative before the euthanasia medications. This will keep your pet completely relaxed, but the process is relatively painless other than the prick of the injections. The euthanasia solution works in a very short amount of time, sometimes less than a minute. Your vet will take a few seconds to listen for a heartbeat before announcing the death.
After the procedure, this will be a very emotional time for you. The staff in your vet’s office understand how you feel, and they will likely offer you privacy to say your goodbyes. If you have prepared as suggested, you can make a quiet exit when you are ready to leave.
It is good to be aware that your pet’s eyes will likely remain open after death. Plus, there may be a few muscle spasms or the sounds of air being expelled from the body. This is normal, and it does not mean that your pet is alive or suffering.
If you choose to have your pet cremated and wish to preserve some of the ashes in a keepsake urn, you can find the perfect vessel at Johnston’s Cremation Jewelry. We have several designs specifically for the purpose of keeping your pet close to your heart. We understand the grieving process, and we will help you keep the choosing process stress-free.]]>
The normal experience of processing the loss of a loved one is called grief. (Death is not the only thing that can cause one to grieve, but it is generally the most impactful.) The grieving process includes symptoms that are mental, physical, social, emotional, and spiritual.
The path to healing is different for everyone. Things like your age, beliefs, personality, and social network can all have an effect on how you recover from your loss. There is no “normal” amount of time for dealing with the grief, but there are a few things that you can do to help.
The best thing that you can do is accept your feelings. Losing a friend, spouse, or family member takes a toll. It will take time to come to terms with it, and you shouldn’t feel guilty for taking all the time that you need.
It is also a good idea to build your support network. You can often find community groups or even professional group therapy that will help you deal with your loss. Remember, you will have good days and bad day, and you should always acknowledge your emotions and allow yourself to experience your feelings.
Some people need a physical object or place to focus their grief and help them honor their loved one that has passed on. For some, the burial site or gravestone is that place. However, if the deceased has been cremated, you may not have that physical connection that you desire. A way to honor your loved one and give yourself the focus that you need can be found in memorial jewelry or cremation jewelry. These pieces are actually miniature urns that allow you to carry a small number of your loved one's ashes with you. They come in many shapes and designs, so you can find a style that best suits your memory.
If you are interested in finding a piece of memorial jewelry, you can find lovely pieces at Johnston’s Cremation Jewelry. The stunning designs allow you to keep a piece of your loved one with you when you need them.]]>
As a parent, you attempt to protect your child from pain and suffering as much as you can. However, when a loved one dies, there is no way that you can keep your teen from feeling the grief. Time is really the only thing that will help your teenager cope with the reality of death, but there are a few things that you can do to help.
Your teenager may shy away from attending any of the memorial services that take place after a death. However, you should encourage him or her to attend at least a portion of the funeral or whatever type of service is being held. It can be a beneficial step in the grieving process, and it can help them to see that they are not the only person feeling so deeply saddened by the passing.
Explain to your teen the different stages of grief and let him or her know that all of the emotions that they are feeling are completely normal. Remind them that it is okay to cry or be angry. You should be open about how you are feeling as well. Allow them to talk to you about their feelings and be the shoulder that they can cry on.
While some people want to talk about the person that has passed and recall funny stories, others may not want to talk at all. Either approach is fine. If your teen wants to talk, try and be there to listen. However, if they don’t that is okay too. You can encourage them to write or keep a journal to “talk out” their feelings in a private way. This will allow them an outlet while still keeping their feelings personal.
While they may want to remove any traces of the deceased to help curb the pain, encourage your teenager to preserve some of the memories. They may be saddened by the loss later when they have moved out of the mourning process. Things like a memory box, cremation necklace, or even a photo album can help preserve the memory of the loved one but can be put away until they are ready for the memories.
Your teen may feel more comfortable discussing their feelings of loss with their peers. There are plenty of support groups that can be found either locally or online that will help your teen cope with the loss of the loved one. Encourage them to find a group that is suited to their mourning process.
At Johnston’s Cremation Jewelry, we understand how devastating the loss of a loved one can be that is why we created our line of cremation necklaces and urn jewelry. We wanted to give people a way to preserve their loved one and keep them close to the heart. Many of our styles will appeal to teenagers as well as adults.]]>
Of course, quite often, when you scatter someone’s ashes, you’ll do it in a place that you can’t easily visit very often. Or, even if the ashes are scattered nearby, you will still want something that physically reminds you of them and that will memorialize them in some way. There are a number of ways that you can do this, some of which will create a memorial that anyone can visit and some of which will create a more private, personalized memorial for you to visit or see regularly on your own.
If your loved one enjoyed getting outside and doing work in the garden, a memorial garden is a wonderful gesture that you can make to honor their memory. You can do this on your own property, or you can donate funds to plant a memorial garden in a nearby park.
Another great memorial idea is to donate money to your local parks department to have a memorial bench installed in a place that your loved one visited often. If there was a particular restaurant or another business where they were a regular and enjoyed spending a lot of time, you might also talk with the proprietors about adding a memorial bench out on the sidewalk where people can rest and where you and your friends and family can come sit and reminisce about your loved one when you feel the need to be close to them.
If you have a family plot, you may want to have a symbolic gravestone set in place there. This gives you and your family members and friends a place to go when you want to pay your respects to your loved one, even though their body is not actually present there.
Finally, instead of scattering all of your loved one’s ashes, you could save some to be put in a piece of cremation jewelry. Then, whenever you wear that jewelry, you’ll have your loved one with you, and you can think and reflect on them, their memories, and all they did for you in their life.
Cremation jewelry is a beautiful way to create a private memorial for a departed loved one. With it, you can honor their memory wherever you go and always feel close to them. Consider a few of the gorgeous options available from Johnston’s Cremation Jewelry today.
]]>No one likes going to funerals or memorial services. However, we all recognize that there’s something essential and important about these services and the rituals involved with them. Though we may not share the same superstitions that gave rise to some of the common practices performed in today’s mourning rituals, we can still take comfort in them. Why? Because, for a number of reasons, these mourning and grieving rituals are important, especially in the case of funerals and memorial services.
So what exactly do we get from these rituals, and why do we continue to perform them today?
As you probably already know, denial is the first stage of grieving. To move forward with the mourning process, you must be able to acknowledge and recognize the reality of your loved one’s death. Mourning rituals allow people to come together to grieve openly and acknowledge the reality of a loved one’s passing.
As bleak as this may sound, it’s important to let yourself cry and even sob as you feel the pain of loss from a loved one’s death. Embracing that pain with other loved ones lets you feel it in a healthy and safe way. Many of the rituals of a funeral or memorial service, like readings from the family or scattering ashes, are designed to help you come to terms with your loved one’s death and feel the pain of grief so that you can eventually let that pain go.
Of course, the final stage of the grieving process is acceptance, and in acceptance you can start to remember the good times and reminisce on your loved one’s life with happiness instead of sadness. During a memorial service, you and your friends and family will have time to remember your loved one’s life and to honor them with at least a glimmer of joy even in all of your sorrow.
Mourning rituals, whatever they may be, are also important because they gather friends and family to grieve together and to support each other. To show each other support and to keep their departed loved one close, many mourners today will purchase cremation jewelry. Perhaps you and the closest family members and/or friends will have the same pendants or charms, all of which will hold a small amount of your loved one’s ashes so that you can all keep them with you always.
There are countless mourning rituals associated with funerals and memorial services around the world, but they almost all have one thing in common. They serve to bring people together to help them through the grieving process.
If you’re grieving for a loved one, you may want to consider Johnston’s Cremation Jewelry’s selection of cremation jewelry.
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Instead of just “letting go”, one of the best things you can do is to find a personal and unique way to honor their memory and celebrate their life in small ways every day. That’s why so many people are opting for cremation jewelry and other small commemorative items and acts – they give you the chance to think about a departed loved one and hold them close, even long after they’re gone.
Planting a tree for a departed loved one is a wonderful way to remember them. You can plant it in your backyard or in another special place that you can visit. As the tree grows, it’ll give more and more shade, and you can enjoy mild, sunny afternoons sitting under it, reading a favorite book, and reminiscing about your time together.
If your loved one was an avid reader, they probably left behind at least a few interesting books. Convert a corner of your home into a snug reading nook with a small shelf with your loved one’s books and a few of your own that you think they would have loved, as well. When you need time to yourself to think about them, you can go sit in this nook, pick up one of their books, or just close your eyes and think about a fond memory.
As we mentioned earlier, a lot of people who’ve lost loved ones are now opting to keep those loved ones close wherever they go with cremation jewelry. If you’ve lost someone close to your heart, you might want to get a beautiful necklace that will hold a few of that person’s ashes. As you go through life, you can take your loved one with you and be reminded of them whenever you look at your necklace, bracelet, or other piece of cremation jewelry.
There are all kinds of ways to honor and commemorate departed loved ones, and these are just a few of the things that you can do to keep someone in your heart and close to your thoughts, even years after they’ve passed on. Consider doing one or more of these things to give yourself time with them whenever you need it. And consider your options for a beautiful piece from Johnston’s Cremation Jewelry to help you honor their memory for years to come.]]>
Whether we have lost a friend, family member or a pet, the pain of loss is very difficult to overcome. Sometimes, we think we are getting better and a small issue, sight, smell, or just about any other experience can trigger a new wave of pain. This is all part of healing from grief, and yet there are things we can do to make it easier on ourselves.
For one thing, most of us have a place or a way we can make ourselves feel reconnected to the person lost. It might be visiting their headstone at a cemetery, going somewhere we often traveled with them, or even just looking at a photo and speaking with them.
Another we can do is where memorial jewelry. This is something like an urn necklaces that is designed to look like a regular pendant, but which features a hidden compartment where a lock of hair or some of their ashes can be placed. Kept close to our hearts, the cremation jewelry allows us to have a sense of that physical presence we yearn for, just as we experience it when visiting our loved ones at their graves.
What is so important about memorial jewelry of this kind, though, is that it allows us to honor a loved one's wishes, or the need for, cremation while also still giving us the opportunity of remaining connected. Most ashes are scattered according to a loved one's wishes or in a way that honors them. This leaves us without that way of feeling close to them as we do at a grave. It can make it very difficult to heal, but with urn jewelry, that all changes.
Keepsake jewelry of this kind is also an ideal tool for helping children overcome the loss of a pet. Often, this is the first experience of death and loss, and children may not know how to cope with it. Giving them cremation jewelry encourages them to speak about the pet, allowing them to tell you how they are doing with the loss. It lets them understand that our loved ones are always with us because we remember them, speak of them and recall all our happy times together.
Memorial jewelry is also a good idea for the elderly often unable to attend the funerals of loved ones or cherished friends. It provides them with the means of experiencing closure, and yet also serves as a way of speaking about their loss and dealing with grief.
At Johnston's Cremation Jewelry. there are many styles of cremation jewelry pendants ideal for men, women and children.]]>Many of us see things like park benches and lovely murals honoring those who were deeply loved during life. We also all know about the beautiful things written on headstones in graveyards, statements that are irrefutable proof that those lost are always remembered. However, there is an evolving trend in remembering those lost as we cope with the grief of losing them, and it is known as cremation jewelry.
Essentially, cremation jewelry contains a small amount of the ashes of the one lost. Whether you are going to scatter their ashes or keep them in a keepsake urn somewhere in the home, you can also use the symbolism of memorial jewelry to work your way through grief and begin to heal.
Johnston's Cremation Jewelry has many different styles of cremation jewelry pendants for both genders and in unique designs that are surprisingly stylish and discreet. Wearing an urn necklace is something many people are choosing to do as they heal from their loss, and it can greatly improve how they feel about the situation. Instead of feeling sad or alone, the memorial jewelry serves as a constant reminder that their loved one is always with them; they need only touch the necklace for ashes to be reminded of that.
Surprisingly, one group that has shown the benefits of healing through remembrance is children. Giving them a piece of keepsake jewelry, such as urn jewelry, can greatly help them overcome such a devastating loss. It gives them a physical object that they can use to remember, talk about and better understand how they feel. Rather than talking about a new pet or how they can move on, giving them a cremation necklace tells them that they can talk about the pet whenever they like and that no one we have ever lost is truly gone because we remember them.
It can be difficult to deal with the immense pain that comes with grief and loss, and so often we seek some sort of distance from that pain. However, if we remember the happiness of our time with our loved ones or beloved pets, it can alleviate some of that pain and allow us to begin truly healing. The use of cremation pendants is a simple and quite beautiful way to look on our loss in a new way. A beautiful symbol that reassures and helps heal, it is a good choice for a friend or family member who has suffered loss.
]]>Scattering ashes is something that is not as easy or as straightforward as it sounds. After all, the manner in which we receive our loved one's ashes can often be surprising. A plastic bag tied with your average twist tie and all tucked into a small cardboard box is the usual manner. This is a bit of a shock to some, but where it becomes impractical and unwanted is during an ash scattering ceremony. This is because there is nothing more unceremonious than dispersing ashes from what amounts to a standard plastic bag!
This is why experts advocate the use of "scattering urns". These are beautifully designed urns that can be repurposed into everything from birdhouses to garden ornaments. The wonderful thing about them is that they allow you to scatter the ashes without any awkwardness or unpleasant sense that the container is less than it should be. Imagine scattering the ashes of a loved one from a biodegradable salt urn, a sand urn or even a wooden birdhouse. This is much more satisfying and peaceful than a plastic bag in a box.
Of course, scattering ashes is not always what you might expect it to be. Blogger Tre Miller Rodriguez shared some amazing truths about this in one piece and among the points she made was that most don't realize they don't have to spread all of the ashes at once. She decided to slowly spread her late husband's ashes in places they vacationed as well as other spots he should have visited with her.
This is a good point for those who are dealing with the cremated remains of loved ones. She suggested a keepsake urn for storing ashes, and yet this is also a good point for those considering cremation jewelry.
This can allow them to manage their loved ones cremated remains, and easily transfer some into their cremation jewelry pendants or urn necklace. Then, they can decide whether to scatter the ashes at once, at many other points, or simply retain the ashes in an appealing urn.
Johnston's Cremation Jewelry is one resource for those who are seeking keepsake jewelry suitable for retaining some of their loved one's ashes. This is a perfect way to find peace as you decide what to do with a loved one's remains. Whether it is a beloved family pet or a human family member, the choice to permanently separate from their remains can be challenging, and yet cremation jewelry makes it an easier decision.
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The death of a loved one, whether human or pet, is never an easy thing to overcome. Whether it was an unexpected loss or one that had been anticipated due to illness or age, it is still a very challenging issue. It becomes even more difficult when it occurs during a difficult or trying time. For example, women who are pregnant and lose a loved one or seniors who lose their partners while they, themselves, are struggling with failing health may find it especially difficult to work past the loss of a loved one. However, even difficult financial times, trying political periods or something as simple as the middle of winter can also be a "hard time" to find yourself struggling with loss.
It is at such times that experts advocate really listening to your body. If you feel tired, it is fine to rest. If you feel overwhelmed, it is time to say so. The one thing that you cannot do is ignore those signs or tell yourself you cannot give into grief. It is only by accepting grief that we begin to get past grief. This is particularly true in hard or trying times when we may feel the pressures of staying on our work schedule or keeping up with routines.
One thing that many who grieve find comfort and relief in doing is making formal plans or actionable steps and then implementing them. For example, if a loved one dies and you plan their funeral and see it all through to the end, you may feel winded and you see that you didn't have a chance to say goodbye or grieve fully. When that loved one is buried, you can go to their grave and take care of that missed step. You can do that as often as you need to feel comfort and take control of grief.
When someone is cremated, though, you have to make plans for handling their remains. A keepsake urn is often one of the wisest options as it is far more appealing than the containers that cremated remains must be shipped or delivered in. However, you might also be planning on scattering ashes in an appropriate place, and this too can help with grief. Yet, take the time to ask yourself if you are prepared to have nowhere to go and fully process the grief.
If so, it is a good idea to consider cremation jewelry that allows you to retain some of the ashes and, in essence, always have your loved one close. The use of an urn necklace, such as those available from Johnston's Cremation Jewelry, can allow you the same sense of sitting by a traditional grave provides. You can speak to the loved one, express your feelings of loss and process your grief. You can take comfort from memorial jewelry of this kind, too.
When loss strikes at a very hard time, whether it is during pregnancy, when you yourself are infirm or during periods of great financial or life stress, it can be easy to forget to take care of yourself and your grief. This is why you may want to invest in a necklace for ashes. It allows you to meet your loved one's wishes for cremation and even ash scattering, but also lets you process grief fully and at a time that works better for you.
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It is so difficult to know what to say or do when a friend or family member has suffered a loss. We express our condolences, offer support, but we might also feel quite helpless. This is a time to know how to offer support that they can really use. This does not mean "fixing" what is wrong, because that is not possible. What is wrong is they are grieving and will need someone they can count on to help them navigate that painful process.
One amazing way to support someone who is dealing with grief and loss is to understand the science behind it. For many years, experts have said that there are five stages of grief. They are usually described as denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance, and most experts also remind those learning about grief that love never fades or dies, it is simply that the living learn to cope with the loss in those five stages.
To help your friend or family member, simply remember that they are working through one or more of those stages. Don't tell them that, as they need to grieve naturally, but use your knowledge to offer the right kinds of support.
There is a common error that people make when they are seeking to support someone struggling with grief. We mentioned it earlier, and it is that most of us try to fix things. We say things we shouldn't or do things that don't really help. With an understanding of grief though, you can recognize certain signs and you can just provide help with things that can interfere with their grieving.
Carly Simon sang that song "I Haven't Got Time for the Pain," and though that is an outdated tune, the sentiment should be considered. In the modern world, we can be so busy and full of so many pressures that we don't make room for grief. Simply supporting your friend or family member by doing household chores, helping with any funeral planning, doing some driving…these are incredibly useful and supportive steps.
Most of us are not thinking as clearly as normal when grieving, and especially during the first days and weeks after a loss. This is a time for a good friend to make helpful suggestions, especially with things like funeral planning or memorial decisions. One great thing to recommend is cremation jewelry. This is a unique way to ensure the person grieving has a tangible, physical remembrance of the person or pet they have lost.
While a keepsake urn is a common item chosen to store remains or use at an ash scattering service, the use of cremation jewelry pendants or memorial jewelry is a wonderful opportunity. It allows your friend or family member to retain a small amount of their loved one's ashes, or even something like a lock of hair. An urn necklace may not be something they are considering, yet if the ashes are scattered, they have lost their chance. Suggest the use of a necklace for ashes and see if this is a source of comfort for the one who has suffered a loss. Johnston's Cremation Jewelry makes keepsake jewelry and cremation jewelry available.
]]>Denial is a crucial step and shouldn’t be ignored. This natural reaction leaves us feeling that the world is meaningless and life makes no sense. We’re numb and feel like we can’t go on. Getting through a single day seems impossible. But denial helps to pace our grief. It prevents our systems from going into overload. Denial helps us handle each new level of emotion as we feel strong enough to.
Some people fight the natural anger that they feel inside. We are used to pushing down anger in most situations. But when it comes to grief, anger helps us heal. It acts as a link between denial and the next stage. If you don’t deal with the anger when you feel it and push it down deep within you, it won’t go away. Instead, it will grow until you can’t hold it in any longer. Dealing with your anger in a healthy manner will help you move towards closure.
This stage can come and go. When you dwell on the last few days of the deceased, you might wonder what you could have done differently to stop the loss. Guilt often goes hand in hand with bargaining and you find yourself wishing that if you could just do one thing differently and save the deceased. You can allow these thoughts to happen but you have to remember that you can’t change the past and that you are not to blame for your loved one’s passing.
Once we move past the denial, anger and bargaining, it is only natural for depression to set in. As painful as this stage is, you need to go through it. Even though it feels like it will last forever, this stage will pass. If you find yourself struggling, there is no shame in seeking professional help. You will find your own purpose again, along with happiness.
Don’t confuse acceptance with feeling that you are “over” your loss. Instead, this stage is about accepting the reality of what has happened in our lives. There’s no denial or bargaining left anymore. Instead, we are learning about the new person that we have become after traveling through the five stages of grief. We may never be the same person that we were before the loss, but we are now stronger than before.
Losing someone dear is never easy. But hopefully the five stages of grief will ease your pain and help you move towards closure and healing. Johnston’s Cremation Jewelry will always be here if you decide to consider cremation jewelry as part of your healing process.]]>
First, you don’t have to decide on a single place and time to scatter all of your loved one’s ashes. You might want to turn this ash scattering into an annual ritual that you and your family do each year on the same date. Or you might want to save some of the ashes to place in cremation jewelry so that you can keep your loved one with you always.
If your loved one wished to have their ashes scattered on private property, park land, or in a waterway, you may need to get permission before holding your ash scattering ceremony. Though there aren’t any police specifically tasked with ensuring that people aren’t scattering ashes where they don't have permission, getting interrupted by an officer or park ranger probably isn’t exactly what you want to remember about scattering a loved one’s ashes.
Casting ashes into the wind is a beautiful part of many ash scattering ceremonies, but it can quickly become unpleasant and embarrassing if you or your friends and family members stand downwind of the person casting the ashes.
If you are going to scatter or cast the ashes by hand, bring some water and a dry paper towel, as some of the ashes will likely stick to your skin and you don’t want to wipe them on your clothes. Speaking of logistics for scattering ashes, if you’re traveling by plane to scatter a loved one’s ashes, you may want to carry the ashes in your carry-on, as there’s no chance that they’ll get lost if your luggage is misplaced.
You can never be completely prepared for what you’ll feel and experience when scattering a loved one’s ashes, but now you should have a bit better understanding of what to expect from an ash scattering ceremony. Remember, there are many ways to memorialize a loved one who’s passed on, and one of the best for many people is to keep some of their ashes and seal them in cremation jewelry. Take a moment to browse through the options available at Johnston’s Cremation Jewelry.]]>
While black is the most widely accepted color to wear to a funeral or memorial service, you do not have to wear it if you do not think it’ll be appropriate. There’s a touching story of a soldier who wore a bright green dress to a buddy’s funeral because they’d made a pact when they were oversees together. While this might seem disrespectful to those outside of their close friendship, in this case the soldier’s odd clothing was perhaps the most respectful thing he could have worn.
For most of us, though, a conservative black dress or suit is the best option when mourning a loved one. Whatever you wear, be sure that it is something that your loved one would have approved of and that will make his or her family and friends feel comfortable and respected.
Whenever possible, arrive to a funeral or memorial service at least 15 to 20 minutes early. This will give you time to greet friends and family and to pay your respects to those who were closest to the deceased. It’ll also give you time to find a seat and prepare yourself for the service.
Whether singing along with a hymn, reciting a prayer, scattering ashes, or anything else during the service, always pay attention, follow cues, and participate when asked. Then, when it’s time for everyone to leave, be respectful of the order of dismissal. The closest family members will leave first, and then everyone else will file out quietly after them.
A funeral or memorial service gives mourners a chance to come together and remember their departed loved one. Observing this etiquette is a good way to show respect and to avoid distracting from the service. If you follow these rules and stay close to your friends and family to support each other in the days and weeks afterward, you will find that you can get through the grieving process one step at a time.
If your loved one has been cremated and you are interring or spreading their ashes, you may want to consider saving a few ashes for a piece of quality cremation jewelry from Johnston’s Cremation Jewelry. These pendants and charms let you keep your loved one always close to your heart with an elegant piece of jewelry.
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Unfortunately, if you dive into work (of any kind, not just planning the funeral and related details) to avoid feeling the loss of someone you loved, eventually all of those feelings are going to come crashing down on you. That’s why it’s important to give yourself time to grieve and to take care of yourself in the time after a loved one dies. Follow these tips for better self-care as you mourn.
First, the grieving process is stressful and emotionally draining. Just the process of going through the five stages of grief can be exhausting. If you recognize this, you can give yourself permission to break down, to need some time alone, or to go to bed an hour early when you need to. Recognizing that you’re not “just” grieving and that mourning is a very difficult process that can be physically and mentally tiring will help you take the time you need to take care of yourself better.
In the days and weeks after your loved one passes, keep a journal. Whenever you feel overwhelmed or especially emotional, write down what you’re feeling. Spend a little bit of time each day writing down what’s going on in your head and your heart, and you’ll feel a little bit less stressed and overwhelmed immediately.
And, after a few weeks, you can look back at all the progress you’ve made. Not only that, but journaling is a good way to record memories of your loved one so that you can keep them in your heart for years to come.
Especially in the first few days, it’s easy to ignore your body and its needs. You might find yourself forgetting to eat, sleeping instead of exercising, or working long past when you feel exhausted and ready to shut your eyes. Take some time to listen to your body and do what it needs, whether that means stopping to eat, going for a walk, or taking a nap.
One of the things that can help you remember to take care of yourself during this difficult time is a piece of beautiful cremation jewelry. Keep your loved one close to your heart, and when you look at or touch the pendant or charm with their ashes in it, remember that they’d want you to take good care of yourself as you grieve. Browse through the gorgeous selection at Johnston’s Cremation Jewelry for the perfect charm or pendant to remember someone you love.]]>
In some cases, you may have to have a pet put down or you may find out that your child’s pet has died while your child is in school or away at camp. In this case, it’s best to wait until you can tell your child about their pet’s death in a safe and comfortable space. Wait until you get home or at least until you can take your child aside and tell them one-on-one in a place where they won’t feel exposed or embarrassed, or where they’ll be easily distracted from listening to and absorbing the news.
It may be tempting to say that your pet went to live on a farm or that it crossed the rainbow bridge, but avoid these euphemisms. Instead, be kind but frank and honest. Explain that everyone dies eventually and that your pet has passed on to a better place where it won’t be in pain.
As you talk with your child about their pet’s death, be sure to let them know that you understand that they’re going to have a lot of different emotions about it and that it’s okay to feel these things. At this point, it’s okay to show your own sadness so that your child knows that you mean what you’re saying. Also, let them know that they can talk to you about how they’re feeling at any time.
After the initial shock of learning that their pet has died, your child will likely feel sad or depressed about the loss. You can help them heal and move forward by helping them find joy in the memories of their pet. Frame a picture of your child and pet together. Have your pet cremated and order cremation jewelry so that you and your child can each have a pendant or charm that has a few of your pet’s ashes in it.
Finally, remember that grieving over a pet is just like grieving over a person, especially in the eyes of a child. Their dog may have been the center of their world, and it will take some time for them to fully recover. Instead of just trying to replace it with a new pet immediately, spend time remembering your pet and talking about it and all of your happy memories with it. This will help your child through the process better than anything else.
If you’ve recently lost a pet and you’re trying to help your child cope with the grieving process, take a moment to consider the options available from Johnston’s Cremation Jewelry.]]>
Because they really are members of your family, it can be devastating when a pet dies. Though you know they’re gone, you expect them to bound into the room at dinnertime or to be lying in a patch of sunlight by the window all afternoon. Knowing that you’ll never stroke their fur or nuzzle their nose again is heartbreaking.
And yet, people hardly ever hold memorial services or funerals for their pets, and they don’t do the other things that can help you say goodbye and hold onto your memories and love of your pets the way that something like a piece of cremation jewelry can. We’ve talked before about mourning a pet and some of the ways that you can get a sense of closure and work through your grief. Choosing the right cremation jewelry to wear in memory of a pet can be one of the best things you can do for yourself in during this time of loss. But which piece should you choose?
Johnston’s offers a variety of options for pet cremation jewelry. You could get a heart-shaped pendant necklace or charm bracelet with a tasteful outline of a cat on it to remember your cat when it would purr on your lap. You could also get a heart-shaped charm with a pair of paws on it for either a cat or a dog.
Of course, these might not seem exactly right for your pet, and that’s alright. Perhaps you took your dog on walks at night, and you remember looking up at the moon as the two of you strolled along. A moon charm might be the perfect urn for a few of your dog’s ashes so that you can keep them close and think of those beautiful nights walking under the moon.
If your cat always chased butterflies, moths, and anything with wings in the backyard or around the house, you might consider a butterfly cremation memorial pendant. You can think of your sweet kitty leaping and running after flitting butterflies every time you look at it.
Cremation jewelry is a unique way to celebrate a pet’s life and help yourself through the mourning process at the same time. Take a look through the different options for charms and pendants from Johnston’s Cremation Jewelry today.]]>
If you aren’t already, get familiar with the five stages of grieving. If you know these stages, you can observe your friend’s behavior and understand their responses to you and others. If they’re in the anger stage of grieving, they may lash out and say things that they don’t mean. If you recognize this as a part of the grieving process, you can more easily forgive them and have a more positive reaction that will help them cope rather than make them feel bad for being angry.
It’s clichéd, but there’s a reason that people make casseroles for those who are mourning. If you have a friend or another loved one who’s grieving, they’re likely not going to be in the best mental place to plan meals or cook anything complex. If you can make them a simple, healthy dish that they can get several meals out of without anything more than a microwave, you’ll be doing them a huge service.
It’s easy to make things about yourself, to give advice, and to say things like, “When I was…” Refrain from all of these. Instead, when your friend needs to talk, just listen. Give them time to vent when they’re angry, to talk about the happy things when they’re feeling like reminiscing, and to break down when they’re depressed. All of these are perfectly acceptable reactions during the grieving process, and you can do a surprising amount of good just by being there to listen.
If you want to do something nice for them besides taking care of a few meals or being there with a shoulder to cry on, you may want to consider cremation jewelry. An urn charm or pendant is a beautiful way for them to hold their loved one close to them, and it’s something simple to support them as they make their way through the grieving process.
Johnston’s Cremation Jewelry has a wide selection of quality cremation jewelry in beautiful designs to be worn as pendants or charms, so there’s something perfect for anyone who wants to remember a departed loved one with a piece of delicate and attractive jewelry.
]]>For many women, finding out they’re pregnant is one of the most joyful things that they’ll ever experience. While the process of creating a life can be exhausting and emotional, women all over the world agree that it’s also exciting and wonderful, too. Unfortunately, many women today will have to deal with the process of mourning a loved one during pregnancy. If you’re pregnant and someone you love has passed on, the grieving process may be more deeply emotional and more difficult, both physically and emotionally. Here are a few steps to take to help yourself through this difficult time.
If you lose a parent or another loved one who would have been a large part of your baby’s life, it’s easy to think of all of the missed memories you’ll have and how much you’ll wish that they were there for your child’s first steps, first words, and so many other “firsts”. In this time, don’t hesitate to ask for any kind of help you need, whether it’s physical or emotional.
Whether you need someone to carry some groceries in from the car or a shoulder to cry on, you don’t have to go through this alone. Ask for help whenever you need it, and the people who love you will be glad to give it to you and show you what a loving world your child is coming into.
Instead of thinking about all that your loved one will miss and how sad it makes you feel that your child will never get to know them, consider how you can share their memories with your child when they’re old enough. Collect old photos and videos, as well as other mementos, and put them together in an album or a display that reminds you of them and that you can look through with your child later on.
Especially if you’ve lost a parent, passing your loved one’s name on to your child can be a wonderful way to memorialize them, connect them to your child, and always keep them in your heart. And you know that one day your child will ask how you chose their name, which will give you a beautiful opportunity to tell your child about all of your memories of their namesake.
As a physical commemoration and reminder that your loved one is always with you, you may also want to consider purchasing some special cremation jewelry. This way you can actually take a part of your loved one with you wherever you go, or you could pass your cremation jewelry on to your child as a special gift to honor the memory of their grandparent or another loved one. Johnston's Cremation Jewelry has numerous beautiful designs, one of which is sure to be the perfect fit for you.]]>
There are so many difficult decisions that we are faced with when dealing with the loss of a loved one. Unless your loved one left specific instructions, you might be unsure with how to permanently honor them with a final resting place. If you are considering cremation, one benefit is that you would have the opportunity to keep a loved one closer than you ever thought possible with cremation jewelry. But if you’re unsure about them or if this is the first time you’ve heard of the jewelry, you might have a few questions. Here are some great reasons to consider this jewelry.
When people are first presented with the idea of cremation jewelry, they often express concern over what others will think. They feel that the jewelry will act as some sort of label and alter people’s perceptions of them. But cremation jewelry is not physically labeled as such. It looks like any other piece of jewelry but instead, it holds a small portion of your loved one’s ashes, a lock of hair or dried flowers from their memorial ceremony.
No one will now that your loved one’s ashes are resting inside the jewelry, unless you tell them. You can choose to tell everyone about your choice or keep it as your own secret. There’s no right or wrong way to wear cremation jewelry. As long as you’re comfortable with it and it makes you feel better, you’ve made the right decision.
Cremation jewelry is meant to be worn on a daily basis. This means that it’s made to be stylish and attractive. If you purchase your cremation jewelry from Johnston’s Cremation Jewelry, you will notice right away that each piece is constructed from high quality stainless steel. This means that your jewelry will not rust or corrode.
These pieces are also easy to care for so your jewelry will last for decades. With periodic cleaning and taking the proper steps to avoid damage, your cremation jewelry will look just as great as the day you received it.
After losing a loved one, we often take comfort in being able to visit the final resting spot of the deceased. But if your loved one wanted to be cremated and have their ashes spread somewhere specific, it might be more difficult to visit on a regular basis.
But if you keep some of their ashes close to you in cremation jewelry, you’ll never have to travel to visit them. They’ll be with you during happy moments, difficult moments and all the times in between.
If you decide to look into cremation jewelry, Johnston’s Cremation Jewelry offers a wide range of choices. Their team members are available to answer any questions and address any concerns that you might have while making this important decision. Honoring the memory of a loved one should be as smooth as possible. Johnston’s Cremation Jewelry can help.
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One of the more difficult decisions that comes with handling a loss in the family is whether or not the deceased should be buried or cremated. Most loved ones will make their wishes known but if this is not the case, you might be wondering which option is best. The truth is that neither option is considered better than the other. It comes down to personal preference and what you want for future remembrance.
A cremation can only be completed at a certified crematorium. Arrangements are made by family members. Some states require a waiting period, up to 48 hours, after death before a cremation can be completed. Take this into consideration when planning memorial services.
The body is placed into a coffin or container. Any prosthetics, radioactive devices or pacemakers are removed. The coffin or container is placed into the cremation chamber where intense heat is administered. This heat vaporizes the body until all that remains are ashes. This can take anywhere from one to four hours, depending on the size of the body. Any bones that did not vaporize will be manually turned to ashes.
The ashes are allowed to cool for a few hours before being placed in an urn or container chosen by the family.
Some families will have the ashes buried in a cemetery or placed in a vault. Some choose to keep the ashes in their home. This is common for married couples, who wish to be buried together.
Some families have a traditional memorial service with the urn present instead of a casket. For some families, the memorial service could be held in a non-traditional place, like the deceased’s favorite restaurant or at their home. This creates a more personal place to remember and grieve.
For some families, a ceremony is scheduled to spread the ashes. This could be done in a body of water, in a wooded area or in a favorite location of the deceased. This is often a ceremony for close family members only.
If you are comparing cremation to traditional burial, there are some differences that could appeal to you. First, cremation is more affordable than a traditional burial service. This is even more true if the memorial service is held in a home instead of a funeral parlor.
Having a body cremated is better than burial when viewed from an environmental point of view. Even if the ashes are released back into nature, they simply become one with the environment. There are no dangerous side effects of doing this.
One of the best benefits of cremation is that it allows family members to keep a small part of their loved one near them. This can be comforting and reassuring for some. One way of doing this is through cremation jewelry. Johnston’s Cremation Jewelry can provide you with a stunning piece of jewelry to add your loved one’s ashes to so that you can keep them near you at all times. Reach out to Johnston’s Cremation Jewelry today for more information.
]]>Losing a pet is one of the most difficult life experiences that we can go through. A pet quickly becomes a member of the family. They’re there for every milestone, every holiday and every moment in between. We all know that we will need to face the day when our pet is no longer with us, but this doesn’t make it any easier. We often find ourselves unsure of what is appropriate when it comes to mourning. Here are our recommendations for mourning a pet in a healthy manner that will provide your deceased with respect and give you and your family the closure that you need.
It may seem silly to some but this event will help you reflect on your pet’s life while providing you with necessary closure. Make sure to include your entire family and if there’s anyone else who you think would appreciate being there, be sure to send along the info to them. Share stories and celebrate their lives and the memories that were made along the way.
Don’t think that you need to hold in your emotions just because the deceased is an animal and not a person. The loss can be just as traumatic and in some cases, even more. Talk with family members or friends about your loss. If you don’t have anyone to turn to, call a pet loss hotline. If that makes you uncomfortable, write about your loss. Just remember that expressing your emotions is healthy and is a necessary step in moving on.
Do a good deed in honor of your pet. If you lost a cat, donate your time to the local cat shelter. If you lost a dog, donate a crate of tennis balls to a shelter. If you are pressed for time, consider making a monetary donation in honor of your pet. Find a way to balance out the bad with some good. This is a very powerful moment in the grieving process.
A wonderful way to keep the memory of your pet alive and close to your heart is to wear cremation jewelry. This type of jewelry is designed to allow you to add some of your pet’s ashes or a lock of their hair into a sealed compartment. You can do this in a pendant or necklace.
When you choose to purchase your jewelry from Johnston’s Cremation Jewelry, you’ll be presented with a wide selection of high-quality options. There are designs that were created specifically for preserving the memory of a pet. You’ll appreciate the care and consideration provided by each team member that you come into contact with. Once your keepsake has been filled and sealed, you’ll love the comfort that the jewelry provides you with. Your pet will never truly be gone when you keep them close with jewelry provided by Johnston Cremation Jewelry.
]]>Children are exposed to loss more frequently than ever before. Through technology and daily television, children are no strangers to devastation and death. But this doesn’t mean that they understand it or know how to process it when it happens to someone close to them. If you are unsure how to handle death in regards to children, this short guide should help you navigate your way through this trying time.
After a loved one has passed, the child should be informed immediately. You don’t want them to overhear it from someone else or think that something else has happened to their loved one. Someone who is close to the child should tell them, like a parent or grandparent.
Give them an honest explanation, based on their age. Younger children may not understand different diseases or situations but they should be told the truth. Avoid saying that someone is sleeping or went away. Explain that the loss is permanent.
Your child may not show a large range of emotions yet. It might take them quite some time to understand and accept what has happened. Just like an adult, they also must go through a grieving process.
Be sure to explain the funeral process to them. Let them know that you will be there for them and will answer any questions that they might have about the process. If this is the first time a child is dealing with a close death, the funeral process could be frightening. You should allow the child to attend the funeral but if they are very young, have a backup plan so that someone can care for them.
In the days and weeks following the funeral, there are a few signs that you should look out for. Every child is different and if your child is displaying these acts, it doesn’t mean that there is an issue. But for some, these acts show that they aren’t handling the death well and professional help might benefit them.
First, a child that asks for help with things that they didn’t used to, like going to the bathroom or getting dressed, this is a sign that they are unsure of the world around them. If they develop unreasonable fears or suddenly seem worried, anxious or nervous more often, they might be having difficulty adjusting to life after a loss.
Don’t be alarmed if your child is having trouble adjusting after a loss. With support and lots of love, they will get through it.
A child might not be ready for the responsibility of wearing cremation jewelry. But at Johnston’s Cremation Jewelry, the pendant can be filled years from now if desired. Presenting your child with a grown up piece of jewelry to wear when they’re older can be a treasured step in helping them heal.
]]>Once you have purchased your cremation jewelry and have completed the remembrance process by adding ashes or desired ingredients, you might be wondering how to keep your jewelry clean and just as beautiful as it was on the day you received it. This guide will help you keep your jewelry looking great, allowing you to wear it every day. Keep in mind that some of our pieces will require special instructions. If you have any questions before cleaning your jewelry, please ask.
Most of our pieces are made from stainless steel, which is a steel alloy that will not corrode or rust. It’s durable but it can become scratched or stained if not cared for. Luckily, stainless steel is pretty easy to clean.
First, pour warm water into a bowl with mild dishwashing soap. Dip a lint-free cloth into the soapy water and use it to gently wipe the jewelry until clean. Wipe off any remaining soap with a moist cloth. Dry your jewelry with a clean towel and then allow it to sit out and air dry. You can then use a polishing cloth to shine your jewelry.
Keep in mind that your jewelry can scratch. There might be days or events where it would be best not to wear your jewelry, in order to keep it safe. There are preferred ways of storing your jewelry, especially those as precious as cremation jewelry.
When storing, make sure that your jewelry comes into little or no contact with other pieces. If possible, store it alone or in an individual bag or pouch among other jewelry pieces.
If your jewelry does happen to get a scratch or two, a jeweler should be able to professionally polish it and remove the scratch.
When you own something as precious and dear to your heart as cremation jewelry, you may want to wear it all the time. But in order to keep it safe, you should follow a few guidelines.
First, avoid wearing your jewelry in the shower or to sleep. While it should be completely sealed (you should always use glue when sealing your jewelry), an improperly sealed or damaged pendant could take on water. You should also remove the jewelry while sleeping to prevent a chain from tangling or breaking.
Be careful when doing out of the norm activities. If there is a chance that your jewelry could become snagged, tangled, scratched or endure any other devastating blow, it is best to remove the jewelry. Always store it safely to avoid scratches and never leave it out in the open in public or somewhere you don’t trust.
At Johnston’s Cremation Jewelry, we want you to keep your jewelry safe and stunning for years to come. We are always here to answer any questions and address any concerns regarding the care of our products.
]]>In most cases, sending flowers is perfectly acceptable and often appreciated by the family of the deceased. While they are not mandatory, they are a way for the sender to express their sympathy and love for the deceased and their family. Flowers can bring a sense of warmth and even comfort to such an event.
There are a few basic guidelines to keep in mind. Remember to make sure that the flowers will be arriving at the funeral home before the first visiting hours. It is considered improper etiquette for flowers to arrive during the service.
Also, make sure that the flowers have a card. If you are the sole sender, add a message and your name. If you are part of a large group that is sending flowers, it may be better to sign as a group name, instead of individually. If you do this, be sure to leave the information of one individual so that the family may send thanks.
Your relationship with the deceased will help you decide what type of flowers to send. It is appropriate for anyone to send floral baskets or living plants. Often, these are sent to a home or work instead of the funeral and are addressed to one specific person.
Larger pieces, like floral wreaths, crosses and sprays, are appropriate to give by anyone who was fairly acquainted with the deceased. This could be from coworkers or closer friends. Lid arrangements should only be given by children, grandchildren or specific family members. If you are not in the immediate family of the deceased, ask before you send any sort of lid arrangement.
It has become more common for family members of the deceased to ask for a monetary donation to a charity or something similar, instead of flowers. If this is the case, it is still acceptable to give flowers, as long as you honor the family’s wishes as well.
Some religions do not welcome flowers as much as others. If you are unfamiliar with the deceased’s religion, be sure to find out if flowers are welcomed at the service.
If you feel that it is an appropriate gift to give, a pendant or piece of jewelry from Johnston’s Cremation Jewelry would be a much appreciated gesture. Visit our website and browse our catalog or speak to one of our team members directly to find the perfect gift.
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